Thursday, December 6, 2012

Terminology "Sir" (My Take On It)

Alright i'll explain why its "sir" and not master so you understand. Its in the same boat as collars for a lot of kinky people. I see master as a term you only use on someone who owns you, who you have given yourself to completely and they have excepted you and Sir as more of a generic term for a male dominant who plays with you. I'm not saying that's how it is for everyone or its the only way because it isn't but that's my style. Likewise I don't put any subs in my collar full time without a lot of consideration just as a sub should NEVER just except someones offer to be in their collar without getting to know that Dominant first. I see improper use of the term very much like misusing a honorific when talking to a Japanese person. its a sign of disrespect and I take my roll very seriously. I am very traditional in that way. This has been one of many musings by yours truly Noba and happy nights till next time everyone.